|Posted on January 30, 2018 at 9:55 PM||comments (1)|
ARE YOU WORRIED THAT YOU MAY BE EXPERIENCING EMOTIONAL ABUSE??
Emotional abuse is a horrific experience. By definition, it is "any act which may diminish the sense of identity, dignity, or self worth of another human being". It is also known as psychological abuse, verbal abuse, or verbal aggression.People who experience emotional abuse oten experience low self-esteem, personality changes, depression, anxiety, and suicidal ideations. I have worked with women over the years who have been emotionally abused in their marriages and relationships. I have also seen many women gather up the strength and courage that it often takes to get out of these relationships. Sadly, I have seen many women who stay far too long and suffer lifelong consequences.I founded Pathways to Peace because I have a heavy heart for these women and I understand and can relate to their need for peace. It is my mission to help identify emotional abuse and to help women get the support they need to walk away, to become whole again, and to heal from the scars inflicted by this kind of toruture. Emotional abuse takes away a woman's sense of self, identity,and purpose. It is a dark place to be...especally when someone claims they love you. It is sheer torture to live under the same roof as someone who is emotionally abusing you.I have listed here some common signs of emotional abuse:
Yelling or cussing at you
Threats of abandonment
Intentionally frightening you
Threats to take away food or care
Repeated false allegations of cheating, without merit
Isolating you from friends and family
Withholding money or informaiton
Repeatedly speaking about death, either yours or the abuser's
Treating you like a servant or a child
Just like physical abuse, emotional abuse tends to manifest itself as a repeated cycle including the abuse itself, guilt about the consequences, excuse-making, resuming normal behaviors as if the abuse never happened,shifting the blame to the victim, becomng extra apologetic, and then repeating the abuse all over again.If you have questions or comments abou this topic, feel free leave your comments below. I welcome people to share their stories or personal insights. If you wish to be contacted, please feel free to complete the "contact us" page on this website.